Children are a gift from God.  They come in several different sizes and styles.  They come from a genetic make-up, but that does not determine everything about their lives.  Having been a child ourselves does not give us everything we need to become a dependable mother or father.  We don’t have all the answers…our own experiences can help in many situations but not all the time.  As I continue to strive to live a balanced, Christ centered life here are some of things I have learned that may be helpful to other parents or at least good reminders…

Actions are more important than words

Listen as much or more than you speak

Work less sometimes to be with them

Attention should be equally distributed to all

You can be a friend, a guide, a coach or a counselor at times

Show them God working in the world and in their lives

This is by no means an all-encompassing list, however, it does cover many years of their lives.  You may have noticed the first letter of each statement when put together spell…ALWAYS.

ALWAYS pray for them

ALWAYS love them

ALWAYS forgive them

ALWAYS be there for them

ALWAYS trust in God for their well being

Lastly, be open to try new things and to have new experiences…often times that is the only way you both can see God.

“Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has gone, the new has come!”

                                                                                                               2 Corinthians 5:17

Peace to you and yours.