Choose Love

May 27, 2018 / mcalcagno / Leave a comment

Relationships can be hard if we strive to seek power or control. If our self is driving during our interactions with others things will often end poorly. There will be bitterness, anger, frustration and all the things we don’t want to be a part of our relationships. There is a better way. There is love. Unconditional, never-ending love. This does not mean just let the other person walk all over you and do whatever they want whenever they want. This means both people do things to make life better for both of them. It is important in any relationship to build your time together on a foundation of faith. There will be times when each of you will need to lean on the Lord in prayer as each of you will have your moments when self will try to take over. Be strong together and God will watch over your life. Today my wife and I are celebrating 23 years in marriage, we were joined in marriage by God and nothing will keep us apart. We have had to fight some battles and we continue to get stronger as we go because we both know that there is nobody who will love us like we do each other. I am thankful for every day God gives us together. May you find God’s love and joy in your relationships.

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“Love must be sincere. Hate what is evil; cling to what is good. Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves. Never be lacking in zeal, but keep your spiritual fervor, serving the Lord. Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer. Share with God’s people who are in need. Practice hospitality.”

Romans 12:9-13

(This photo was taken in April of 2016 at a lake place in central Minnesota)

The Fruit Of The Spirit

May 25, 2018 / mcalcagno / Leave a comment

We all have something we believe in, we all have something to share with others. The way we choose to share that message will have a significant impact on whether we are heard or cast aside. How we communicate is probably more important then the message itself because the best message that goes unheard is nothing. God provided the guide on how to interact with others and if more people spent time interacting with each other in this way there would be so much less anger, hatred and disrespectful choices being made among us. The way to communicate a message of injustice or to help draw attention to a need is with the fruit of the Spirit…with love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and with self-control. If you choose to communicate with dishonor, anger, yelling and disrespect for others then the value of your message is lost as the focus will only be on your poor behavior. The message everyone has is important and just as important is how everyone chooses to communicate their message. May God’s love and peace be with you.

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“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law.”

Galatians 5:22-23

(This photo was taken in June of 2013 near Garden of the Gods park in Colorado)

Choose How You Will Respond

May 24, 2018 / mcalcagno / Leave a comment

With every situation in life we are given free will by God which means we choose how to respond to what other people do or say. This freedom also means we are accountable and responsible for our response even if the response is to do nothing. If we are focused on self more than anything else we will often choose a poor response as self is only responding to the impact on me without regard for others. God created us out of His love and we were made to choose the fruits of the Spirit in how we live our daily lives. Be aware not only of ‘what’ you do and say, but also ‘how’ you do and say things when you respond to others. Free will is a gift from God, how we respond with this gift makes all the difference in how we feel in our life. May God’s joy and peace be with you.

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“A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.”

Proverbs 15:1

(This photo was taken in September of 2016 at a lake in central Minnesota)

Be Strong And Courageous

May 23, 2018 / mcalcagno / Leave a comment

Don’t give up, don’t stop trying…whatever it is the next attempt can be the one that gets the results you are hoping to see. Be persistent and be creative. When you have exhausted your approach to an issue or situation, be open and willing to change how you think about it and try again. Pray about it as well, lift your worries and concerns up to Jesus in prayer. Surrender your plans only to God and see what He has in store for you. No matter what the circumstances God is with you and He can guide you. May God’s peace and joy be with you.

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“Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be terrified; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.”

Joshua 1:9

(This photo was taken in August of 2016 in Glacier National Park in Montana)

Trust In The Lord

May 22, 2018 / mcalcagno / Leave a comment

In our interactions with others it may become difficult to trust other people. We are all broken and we all have committed sin. We all have difficulty denying thy self, and we end up doing things that hurt another person. We have all been there…we have all been the one who hurts another and we have all been the one hurt by others. Depending on how bad you have been hurt or betrayed it becomes difficult to trust others. The place we can always trust is at the Cross. This doesn’t mean God will always do what we plan or want, it means we can trust that He is always working for the good in our lives according to His plan. Come to the Cross and learn to live trusting in the Lord first and He will guide us in our relationships with others. May God’s peace be with you.

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“Trust in the Lord and do good; dwell in the land and enjoy safe pasture. Delight yourself in the Lord and he will give you the desires of your heart.”

Psalm 37:3-4

(This photo was taken in June of 2013 at Falls Park in Sioux Falls, South Dakota)

Do Good Things

May 21, 2018 / mcalcagno / Leave a comment

It is easy to look around and think, what difference does it make if I do this or I don’t? This type thinking can lead to a downward spiral of negative thoughts and low self-worth. This is the way of evil and darkness. When we act and do good things it will make a difference, to someone someday. Even if we never get to see the difference in our life or in person it is important to continue to do good things. We are made out of the love of God and we have the hope of eternal life with Him. This world is not our home but while we are here we should do whatever we can, wherever we are to help those in need. May God’s peace be with you.

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“Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.”

Galatians 6:9

(This photo was taken in July of 2016 along Beartooth Pass in Montana)

Patience

May 20, 2018 / mcalcagno / Leave a comment

When we believe and we trust in God we will be required to develop patience in this world. Circumstances will often look hopeless and many people will despair and be engulfed in sadness and fear, that is the way of evil. We must never give up hope, we must trust in God to continue working for the good for us and for everyone. God does not make bad things happen, He is not tempting you with things that are not good…that is sin in the world and we humans invited that sin into this world. God is at work in all the bad we have created to bring out goodness, kindness and love. Believe in Him who created us, believe in His one and only Son, Jesus Christ and see the good things that can happen in your life in this world. May God’s peace and joy be with you.

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“I am still confident of this: I will see the goodness of the Lord in the land of the living. Wait for the Lord; be strong and take heart and wait for the Lord.”

Psalm 27:13-14

(This photo was taken in July of 2016 in Yellowstone National Park in Wyoming)

The Joy Of Faith

May 19, 2018 / mcalcagno / Leave a comment

The true form of joy comes from believing and knowing that the Lord your God created you out of love, knows the about the deepest part of you and will never leave you or abandon you. Faith has been and is the only thing that can overcome sadness, darkness and sin. Jesus came down from heaven and showed the power of faith by His actions and His sacrifice. He defeated sickness and illness, He defeated the devil in the desert, and He defeated death. He did it all for you and He did it out of His love…and that is why true joy is found only in Faith and nowhere else on earth. May you find joy in God’s peace and love.

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“Though you have not seen him, you love him; and even though you do not see him now, you believe in him and are filled with an inexpressible and glorious joy, for you are receiving the goal of your faith, the salvation of your souls.”

1 Peter 1:8-9

(This photo was taken in June of 2016 at a lake near Plymouth, Minnesota)

Persevere

May 17, 2018 / mcalcagno / Leave a comment

Continue to try, keep going, don’t believe you are a failure. Mistakes and failure are steps to success. These hold true in so many aspects of life. Even in our daily faith life. If you are working on establishing a daily routine of devotions and bible reading time or just thinking about it, keep trying different times and places. If you miss a day or more than one get back to it the next day or as soon as you can. Do your best to make it a priority that sticks and pray about it. Ask God to guide you to the time and place everyday. As they say, if it was easy everyone would do it, it takes commitment and it takes perseverance to continue to seek Him and His Word. May God’s peace be with you.

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“Blessed is the one who perseveres under trial, having stood the test, that person will receive the crown of life that God has promised to those who love him.”

James 1:12

(This photo was taken in March of 2018 in White Sands National Monument in New Mexico)

Wisdom And Understanding

May 16, 2018 / mcalcagno / Leave a comment

These are two elements that will get us through anything in life. Wisdom from the Lord and understanding of His Word can help to lead us on the path to joy. To gain these we must spend time reading the Word, praying and sitting quietly with Jesus. For these activities are the true sources of wisdom and how we can gain understanding. The world is filled with darkness and the evil of sin and they will do everything to keep you from spending time with God. Don’t underestimate the power of sin, it is deceptive and persistent and will always be looking for ways to distract you. Seek wisdom from the Lord and read the Scriptures for understanding each day. Ask God to provide you the courage and strength to do so. He loves you and He is watching over you. May God’s peace be with you.

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